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Christmas Wishes and What to Write in a Christmas Card

100+ original Christmas wishes and messages for Mum, mates, family who can't be there and the boss, with short ones for texts, a summer twist and what to skip.

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The short answer

Christmas wishes and what to write in a card

What to write in a Christmas card: start with their name, add one line only they'd get (a memory, an inside joke or a plan), wish them something specific, then sign off the way you'd end a phone call. Three or four lines is plenty, and for a text, one warm line does it. Below are 100+ original Christmas wishes and messages, sorted by who's reading, including short ones for WhatsApp, wishes for family who can't be there and an Australian summer twist.

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The quick answer

Dear [name], Merry Christmas. [One line only they'd understand.] [A wish, or a plan for next year.] Love, [you].

Like this: "Dear Mum, Merry Christmas. Still can't believe you won Uno with a draw four on Boxing Day. Save me the last slice of pav when I'm up in January. Love you heaps, Tom."

That's the whole trick. Everything below is raw material, written for an Australian Christmas, so expect prawns, cricket and a lot of pav. Pinch a line, tweak it, make it yours.

Christmas card messages for family

For Mum

  • Merry Christmas, Mum. Thanks for making every Christmas look easy, when I now know it absolutely wasn't.
  • To the woman who still buys me socks, and is still right to. Merry Christmas.
  • Merry Christmas to my favourite person to ring when the gravy goes lumpy.
  • Thanks for every packed lunch, every lift and every "text me when you're home". Love you, Mum.
  • For the head chef, chief wrapper and keeper of the good scissors. Merry Christmas.

For Dad

  • Merry Christmas, Dad. The tongs are yours, and sadly so are the dad jokes.
  • Thanks for teaching me to reverse park and never mentioning the letterbox again. Merry Christmas.
  • Hope Santa brings you a quiet Boxing Day and a full day of cricket.
  • Merry Christmas to the man who still turns off the lights in rooms I'm sitting in.
  • Thanks for always picking up the phone, even when it's only about the footy. Love you, Dad.
  • Here's to more arvos in the shed and fewer trips to the hardware store.

For grandparents

  • Merry Christmas, Nan. Nobody does a trifle like yours, and believe us, we've checked.
  • To Pop, reigning champion of the after-lunch nap. Have a beautiful Christmas.
  • Thanks for every story, and every lolly slipped to us before dinner.
  • The kids have been practising Jingle Bells for you. Brace yourselves. Merry Christmas!
  • Merry Christmas to the two people who made Christmas feel like Christmas.

Get the kids drawing on this one. More ideas on our gifts for parents and grandparents page.

For your partner

  • Merry Christmas to my favourite person to share a seafood platter with. You can have the last prawn.
  • Every Christmas with you is my favourite one so far.
  • Thanks for laughing at my jokes, even the cracker ones. Merry Christmas, my love.
  • You're the best present I've ever had, and I didn't even have to wrap you.
  • Same couch, same carols, same you. Wouldn't change a thing.

Messages for friends, and family who are far away

For your best friend

  • Merry Christmas to the person who knows all my secrets and still invites me to things.
  • If you beat me to the Boxing Day sales, you know my size.
  • Thanks for another year of eleven-minute voice notes. Love you, mate.
  • You're the family I picked. Merry Christmas.
  • Merry Christmas! Let's never do a $10 Kris Kringle again.

For family interstate or far away

Go easy on the missing. A little is lovely, a whole card of it is heavy to open on the day. Mix in a plan.

  • Merry Christmas from over here. Set a place at the table and I'll be there on FaceTime.
  • Different backyards, same pav. Merry Christmas.
  • Wish I could be there to steal the crispy bits off the roast. Save me some for next visit.
  • Thinking of you all from the other side of the country. Ring me when the crackers come out.
  • Flights are booked for March. Start planning the barbie now.
  • Same sky, different postcode. Merry Christmas, I miss you heaps.

Christmas wishes for family who can't be there

The lines further up are a light touch for family interstate. These are for the specific reasons someone can't make it, because "I miss you" lands differently when you know the roster, the flight or the border they're stuck behind.

For family over east

  • Merry Christmas from Brisbane. Your chair's empty at my table, so I've seated the ham there.
  • Can't make it this year, but the Easter flights are booked. Keep the good chairs warm.
  • I'll be the one on FaceTime at your lunch, holding a plate up to the camera. Merry Christmas.
  • Save me a bit of everything. I'll pay in hugs in January.
  • Different state, same family. Merry Christmas, and put me on speaker for the cracker jokes.

For someone on a roster

FIFO, a ship, a remote site or a long run of shifts. Their Christmas has a date that has nothing to do with the 25th, so give them a date to look forward to.

  • Merry Christmas from home to the camp. The tree stays up until you're back to see it.
  • Your roster says work and ours says wait. We'll do Christmas properly the day you land.
  • We're counting your swing down with the kids. Stay safe out there, and Merry Christmas.
  • Presents are waiting, the pav is on hold and the good chair is yours. Come home safe.
  • Merry Christmas to the one keeping the lights on out there. We'll keep the leftovers going.

Sending more than words? Our FIFO care package ideas cover what suits a small room.

For someone serving or working overseas

Keep it steady and short. They've got plenty to carry already, and a long card full of missing can be heavy.

  • Merry Christmas to the one who's serving far from home. We're proud of you every day.
  • Wherever you wake up on Christmas morning, the whole family is thinking of you.
  • It's Christmas morning here and still the night before where you are. We're already thinking of you, and we'll call when you wake.
  • Your people are raising a glass today. Come home safe, there's a seat at the table.

If you're posting something interstate to go with those words, your message can live behind a QR code on a premium card inside a Same Skies box: it's free for up to 280 characters, or you can add a photo or a video. How it works.

For people outside the family

For someone working over Christmas

Nurses, paramedics, hospo, retail, the FIFO crew on swing: their Christmas happens whenever the roster says.

  • Merry Christmas to everyone keeping the lights on while the rest of us snooze. Thank you.
  • Saving you a plate, a cracker and the good chair for when you knock off.
  • Hope the shift is quiet, the break is long and someone brings in a decent trifle.
  • Thanks for working Christmas so the rest of us can have one.
  • Christmas is a feeling, not a date. We'll have ours with you when your roster says so.
  • Presents are on hold until your day off. No peeking.

Sending more than a card? Here's our care package for someone working over Christmas.

For coworkers and your boss

  • Merry Christmas! Thanks for making Mondays a lot less Monday.
  • Thanks for all the help this year. Enjoy a proper break, you've earned it.
  • Merry Christmas to the best desk neighbour in the building. Don't touch my stapler while I'm away.
  • Wishing you a relaxing break and an inbox that stays quiet until January.
  • Thank you for your support and patience this year. Have a wonderful Christmas with your family.
  • From one coffee addict to another, have a cracking Christmas.

For a teacher

  • Thank you for everything you've done for [name] this year. Enjoy a well-earned break.
  • Thanks for your patience, your kindness and every permission note you chased.
  • [Name] talks about your class at dinner every night. Thank you, and Merry Christmas.
  • Wishing you a summer of sleep-ins and zero marking.
  • Thanks for making school a place [name] wants to be.

For the neighbours

  • Merry Christmas from number 12! Thanks for always grabbing our parcels.
  • Thanks for being the best neighbours on the street. Pop over for a drink over the break.
  • Happy Christmas, and sorry in advance about the backyard cricket.
  • Thanks for keeping an eye on the place while we were away. Merry Christmas.
  • For next door: thanks for the lemons, the chats over the fence and the patience with our dog.

How to word a Christmas message to a colleague or client

Work messages go wrong in two ways: too stiff, or too jokey for the inbox they land in. A formula that works: a thank-you, one specific thing, a wish, then your full name. Add the business name for clients.

For a colleague you like

  • Thanks for covering my leave and not mentioning it once. Have a great break, [name].
  • It's been a pleasure working with you this year. Enjoy a proper rest and I'll see you in the new year.
  • Thanks for being the person I can always ask a silly question. Merry Christmas.

For your manager

  • Thank you for the support and the straight feedback this year. Wishing you a restful Christmas.
  • Thank you for backing the team when it counted. Merry Christmas to you and your family.

For a client or supplier

  • Thank you for your trust this year. We're grateful to work with you, and wish you a relaxing Christmas and a great start to the new year.
  • Merry Christmas from all of us at [business]. We close on [date] and we're back on [date].
  • Thanks for being easy to work with. We look forward to more in the new year, and wish you a very happy Christmas.

A few rules. Skip the sales line, because a card that quietly asks for a renewal is not a thank-you. Merry Christmas is warm if you know the person celebrates it, and Happy holidays or Season's greetings is the safe pick if you don't. And don't promise a catch-up in January unless you're going to put it in the calendar.

A gentle Christmas message for someone grieving

Say the name of the person they've lost, skip the cheerful clichés, and offer one thing you'll actually do. A short card beats a perfect one that never gets sent.

  • Thinking of you this Christmas, and of [name]. We miss them too.
  • I know Christmas without [name] at the table is hard. I'm here, any day, any hour.
  • No need to reply. Just wanted you to know we love you, and we're remembering [name] with you.
  • I keep thinking about [name]'s laugh at Christmas lunch. Sending you the biggest hug.
  • Can I drop dinner round on the 27th? You don't have to answer now.
  • Be gentle with yourself this Christmas. Whatever you feel like doing, or not doing, is right.

Funny Christmas card messages and short one-liners

Funny ones

  • May your prawns be fresh and your uncle's opinions be brief.
  • Santa's seen your search history. Merry Christmas anyway.
  • I was going to get you something amazing, then I saw the price. Merry Christmas!
  • Hope it's hot enough to melt the chocolate before anyone can fight over it.
  • You made the nice list. Barely. Merry Christmas.
  • Hope your esky's full and your thongs survive the sand.
  • This card cost me 65 cents to post. You're worth at least a dollar.

Short one-liners

For the cards you write at the kitchen bench, twenty in a row.

  • Merry Christmas, with love.
  • Thinking of you this Christmas.
  • Peace, joy and a long lunch.
  • Have a cracker of a Christmas.
  • Wishing you a sunny Christmas.
  • Love, laughter and leftovers.
  • Sending a big Christmas hug.

Short Christmas wishes for texts, WhatsApp and friends

A text has one job: land warm, in one breath. Use their name, skip the forwarded chain message, and add one detail only the two of you would get. Merry Christmas, Priya beats Merry Christmas all.

For a mate

  • Merry Christmas, [name]. Eat too much, nap hard, send me the leftovers report.
  • Happy Christmas, legend. Hope the pav survives the day.
  • Merry Christmas to the friend who still answers on the first ring. Love you, mate.
  • Cheers for another year of terrible memes. Merry Christmas, you lot.
  • No present, just a promise: a catch-up in January, my shout.

For the group chat

  • Merry Christmas, team. Whoever's hosting, we're coming for the leftovers.
  • Happy Christmas from my place to yours. Photos of your lunch please, I'm judging.
  • Best wishes to the whole crew. The 2am voice notes resume in January.

Short and warm, for anyone

  • Merry Christmas, [name]. Thinking of you today.
  • Wishing you a slow, sunny, well-fed Christmas.
  • Big hugs and a very merry Christmas to you and yours.
  • Hope today is full of the good stuff.

A short line for someone of faith

  • Wishing you a peaceful and blessed Christmas.
  • Thinking of you and praying for your family today.

Christmas wishes with an Australian summer twist

Christmas here comes with sunburn, a fan on full and a lunch that is eaten outside. One gag per card is plenty. Put it next to a real line and it will land.

  • Hope your Christmas is hot enough for the sprinkler and cool enough for a second helping.
  • May the air-con hold, the ice last and the cricket run long.
  • Wishing you a Christmas with a sea breeze, a cold drink and the good shade chair.
  • Hope the Christmas beetles only dive-bomb the dessert.
  • Same as always: sunburnt shoulders, full bellies and everyone in the pool by three. Merry Christmas.
  • Wishing you a long lunch, a short list of chores and a sunset that takes its time.
  • Merry Christmas from one sweaty family to another.
  • Santa's swapped the jumper for boardies this year. So should you.
  • Here's to the cricket on the telly and the nap that never quite happens.

Writing to someone who is overseas in the cold? Try: "It's 35 degrees here and I'm dreaming of your snow. Merry Christmas."

Religious and non-religious Christmas messages

If you know they go to church, a line about faith will mean a lot. If you don't know where someone stands, Season's Greetings or Happy Holidays is the safe pick, though plenty of non-religious Aussies are perfectly happy with a Merry Christmas.

Religious

  • May the peace and joy of Christ's birth be with you this Christmas.
  • Wishing you a blessed Christmas and every hope for the year ahead.
  • Praying for you and yours this Christmas. May God's love fill your home.
  • May the light of Christmas stay with you all year long.

Non-religious

  • Season's greetings, and happy holidays from all of us.
  • Wishing you a restful break and a great start to the new year.
  • Hope the holidays bring sunshine, good food and good company.
  • Happy holidays! Enjoy the long days and the slow mornings.

How to sign off, make it personal, and what to avoid

Signing off

Match it to how you'd say goodbye in person. Family and partners: Love, Lots of love, Love you heaps. Close friends: Big hugs, Love ya, Cheers. Coworkers, teachers and neighbours: Warm wishes, Best wishes, or Merry Christmas from all of us. Signing as a family? Everyone's name goes on, the dog included.

Making it personal

Pick one of these and you're done:

  • A memory: "Remember the camping trip where the tent ended up in the river?"
  • An inside joke: the nickname, the quote, the thing you both still can't say with a straight face.
  • A plan for next year: a date, a place, a dish they have to cook.

Nobody keeps a card for the rhyme on the front. They keep it for the line about the tent in the river.

What to avoid

  • The year-in-review brag. The promotion, the reno and the Euro summer can go in the group chat.
  • Money, and "hope you like it, it wasn't cheap".
  • "Hope next year's better" to someone who's had a rotten one. "Thinking of you" lands softer.
  • Assuming someone's faith, either way.
  • Copying the same line into thirty cards. Change at least one word per person.
  • Spelling the kids' names wrong. Check the group chat first.

Posting cards yourself? Australia Post's Christmas card rate within Australia is 65c in November and December, in a sealed envelope marked "Card Only" and no bigger than 130mm x 240mm, 5mm thick and 250g. The 2026 metro cut-off for cards is 18 December interstate and 21 December within the same state (Australia Post's Christmas dates). Our guide to Australia Post Christmas cut-off dates has the full parcel table.

When 280 characters isn't enough

Some messages don't fit on a card. The toast you'd give if you were at the table. The grandkids singing, badly. If you can't be there, your voice does something handwriting can't.

The free way: film it on your phone and text it on Christmas morning. It works, though it lands between forty other "Merry Xmas" messages.

The way we do it: every Same Skies box comes with a premium card, and your words live behind a QR code on that card inside the box. A message of up to 280 characters is free, or you can add a photo or a video. They point their phone camera at the code and it opens on their screen, and photos and videos replay for around six months. So the video arrives with the gift, not lost in the chat.

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Hug Away From Home, with your message behind the QR card. See what's inside.

A few tips for recording it:

  • Say their name in the first few seconds. It's the bit they'll replay.
  • Film near a window. Daylight beats the kitchen downlights every time.
  • Keep it under a minute, and end on the plan: "See you in March."
  • Not a phone person? Write "point your camera at the code" on a sticky note so they know what to do.

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Questions people ask

What do you write in a Christmas card?

Start with their name and Merry Christmas, add one line only they'd understand, like a memory or an inside joke, then a wish or a plan for next year and your sign-off. Three or four lines is plenty.

What is a good short Christmas message?

Keep it warm and simple: "Thinking of you this Christmas", "Peace, joy and a long lunch" or "Have a cracker of a Christmas" all work. Add their name and it instantly feels less generic.

How do you sign off a Christmas card?

Match it to how you'd say goodbye in person. Love or Lots of love for family and partners, Big hugs or Cheers for close friends, and Warm wishes or Best wishes for coworkers, teachers and neighbours.

What do you write in a Christmas card to someone who is grieving?

Name the person they've lost, skip cheerful clichés and offer one specific thing, like dropping dinner round. Something as simple as "Thinking of you this Christmas, and of [name]" is enough.

Should I write Merry Christmas or Season's Greetings?

If you know they celebrate, Merry Christmas is lovely. If you're not sure of someone's beliefs, Season's Greetings or Happy Holidays is the safe choice.

What do you write in a Christmas card to a coworker?

Keep it friendly and short: thank them for something specific this year and wish them a proper break. A light joke works if that's your office, like hoping their inbox stays quiet until January.

What do you write in a Christmas message on WhatsApp?

One warm line with their name and one detail only the two of you would get, like "Merry Christmas, Priya. Save me some pav." For a mate who loves a long chat, a voice note beats a paragraph.

What do you write to family who can't be with you at Christmas?

Say you'll miss them in one line, then give them a plan: a call time, a date for a visit, or a promise to hold Christmas the day they're back. A whole card of missing is heavy to open on the day.

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